“In my confusion I could not understand “why me”, but standing to me I grabbed His outstretched hand which is my lead”.
In life if you’re in a tough spot don’t just think of a clever way around it, rather look for a clearer way. Though it may be blurred but it is always blunt, refusing to adjust to our melancholy.
You’ll find that a great thing happens when you take up yourself to brave through whatever you’re facing looking up to your strength.
Everything starts turning when you stop the fear seen from without as you decide to take actions to scale your way through using all that is within.
In losing your husband, the world will cloud you with colors beyond your vision in attitude and expectations as you move from denial with the“if and why” stampeding your emotions to the acceptance of the reality. This conquest is by leaving the “how” and “what” to “when” by focusing on the “now”. It is in managing the moment that you can build up the power to push.
The how it were is past you had, but the what it would have been is only an assumption to you can never have the opportunity of confirming. The only assured option is in your now, motivated yourself to explore it. Don’t wait to be motivated as Jim Rohn said “Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present. Stop the, when will ever truly be happy, it makes you loose the happiness that exist in each moment.
His death is an end yet a beginning, begin to win. We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us – Joseph Campbell.
A Widow's Window 